Who do other people think I am? ...

In class we had to list groups that we, as individuals, are a part of, and for me that was easy. I easily had 10 groups on my paper. I'm a student, a daughter, sister, cousin, grandaughter, camp agawak counselor, blue team captain, friend, one tree hill fan, matt wertz fan, student ambassador ---- the list goes on and on. But what i couldnt figure out, was which one do people see me as? Which one do they define me by? Clearly if someone asks "Who is Carly Wolf?" then a person wouldnt list all of those groups! The only person that would really list them ever would be me. Also, another thought was that maybe some people see me one way, as a friend for example, and then other people see me in a completely different view, as their blue team captain, for instance. It's a really complex and frustrating idea, and I have been trying to figure out all of these answers to who people think I am. And if people think certain things about me, what if I thought they were wrong and wanted to break away and become a person that I am proud to be? ahhh its all so complicated..